Our Level 10 Meetings follow the agenda perfectly, but our debates feel sterile and polite because team members are afraid to show vulnerability or admit when they need help. How do we build real trust during our weekly meeting pulse?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Technical compliance with the Level 10 Meeting agenda is not enough to build a great business. If your team is too polite to engage in honest, uncomfortable debates during IDS, you are only solving surface-level problems while the real issues fester underneath.

To build vulnerability-based trust, the leadership team must start by practicing humility and transparency. As the owner or Integrator, you must lead by example. Be the first to admit when you made a mistake, missed a target, or do not know the answer. This shows your team that it is safe to be vulnerable.

You can also use specific trust-building exercises during your meetings. For example, incorporate a brief personal histories exercise during your annual or quarterly planning to build empathy and understanding.

During your weekly meetings, encourage healthy conflict by calling out artificial harmony. If you notice the team agreeing too quickly on a solution, push back. Ask, "Are we really solving the root cause, or are we just trying to avoid an uncomfortable conversation?" By consistently pushing past the fear of conflict, you will build a stronger, more trusting team that can solve any problem.