Our leadership team is deeply divided on our market positioning, and our upcoming annual offsite is going to be a battleground over our Three Year Picture. How do we structure the offsite to prevent it from devolving into a hostile shouting match and instead turn the friction into a constructive strategic breakthrough?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

A divided leadership team is a liability, but healthy conflict is necessary to build a great company. To prevent your offsite from turning into a turf war, you must establish emotional safety and clear rules of engagement before anyone sits down.

Begin by setting the expectation that the offsite is a safe zone where vulnerability is required. According to Daniel Coyle's Culture Code, groups perform at their highest level when they build safety and share vulnerability. As the leader, you must model this behavior. Start the first day by admitting your own mistakes and fears regarding the company's direction. This lowers self orientation and encourages others to drop their defenses.

During the sessions, use the IDS framework to tackle the market positioning issue. Do not let the team jump to solutions or bicker over minor details. Spend eighty percent of your time identifying the actual root cause of the division. Is it a fear of losing clients, a lack of confidence in your technology, or differing views on the target market?

Keep the debate grounded in your V/TO. Every argument must align with your Ten Year Target. If an idea does not move you closer to that target, it must be discarded. If the team cannot reach consensus after a thorough debate, the Integrator must make the final decision. Once the decision is made, everyone must leave the room fully aligned and supportive of the chosen path.