We have a leader who remains completely silent during critical Level 10 Meeting™ debates, only to lobby other team members in private one-on-one sessions afterward to undermine the decisions we agreed upon. How do we stop this toxic post-meeting lobbying and force them to speak up during IDS®?
This is a trust issue that directly violates the Charter pillar of open and honest communication. When a leader stays quiet during IDS® and then lobbies colleagues in private, they are playing corporate politics and damaging your leadership team cohesion. It means they do not have the courage to be vulnerable in the room, or they do not believe the Level 10 Meeting™ is a safe space.
To kill this behavior, the Integrator must address it immediately. In your next meeting, before starting IDS®, restate the ground rules of the Charter: We solve issues completely in this room, with one voice and one team. If you do not voice your objection here, you forfeit the right to complain outside this room.
During the actual discussion, if you notice this leader pulling back or showing subtle non-verbal resistance like crossed arms or looking away, call them out on the spot. Ask them directly: You are quiet on this; what is your perspective? Force them to put their objection on the record. If the post-meeting lobbying happens anyway, the Integrator must call a one-on-one meeting to address their GWC™ for the seat. A leader who cannot abide by the same-page agreement does not belong on your Accountability Chart.
Category: Level 10 Meetings