My spouse is currently acting as our Integrator, but our personal relationship is bleeding into our executive meetings and making the rest of the leadership team highly uncomfortable. How do we untangle our marriage from our business operations?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Running a business with your spouse on the leadership team can be highly effective, but when marital dynamics bleed into the office, it destroys executive cohesion. The rest of your leadership team will quickly become silent and uncomfortable, fearing they might get caught in the middle of a personal dispute. To fix this, you must establish absolute structural boundaries. Start by defining your seats on the Accountability Chart with extreme clarity. Your spouse must report to the Integrator, even if you are the Visionary. When you are in the office, you are business partners, not husband and wife. You must hold your spouse to the exact same standards of accountability as any other executive. This means objective Scorecard metrics, quarterly Rocks, and performance reviews based strictly on GWC™. Next, implement a rule that personal matters are left at home, and business issues are left at the office. If the dynamic continues to disrupt your Level 10 Meeting™, you must use IDS® to address it openly. Invite honest feedback from the rest of the leadership team. If you cannot maintain professional boundaries, one of you must step out of the day-to-day operations. Your marriage and your business cannot both survive if the lines remain blurred.