Our leadership team is highly defensive whenever we review Scorecard misses, turning our Level 10 Meetings into a courtroom of excuses. How do we build vulnerability-based trust so they own their numbers without getting defensive?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

When your leadership team treats Scorecard misses like a personal indictment, you have a vulnerability problem. In his work on group safety, author Daniel Coyle notes that high-performing teams do not succeed because they are smarter, but because they feel safe enough to share vulnerability. When a number is red on your Scorecard, the goal is not to assign blame. The goal is to identify a systemic issue that is holding the business back.

To fix this defensive culture, you must change how you run your weekly Level 10 Meeting. When a metric is missed, stop asking who messed up. Instead, train your team to say, I missed my number, and it is an issue. Drop the missed metric down to the IDS portion of the agenda.

By moving the miss directly to the Issues List, you depersonalize the failure. The seat holder is not on trial; the obstacle is simply a problem to be solved by the collective intelligence of the team.

You also need to model this behavior as the owner. If you miss your own strategic goals or make a bad call on a new AI operations tool, admit it openly. When the team sees that owning a mistake does not result in a professional execution, they will stop hiding behind defensive arguments and start focusing on solutions.