Our leadership team meetings constantly devolve into petty arguments because our highly direct Head of Sales has a personality style that completely clashes with our quiet, analytical Head of Finance. How do we resolve this stylistic conflict?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

This conflict is usually not a personality clash but a conative mismatch that is being misdiagnosed. Your Head of Sales is likely a high Quick Start who thrives on momentum, risk, and immediate action. Your Head of Finance is likely a high Fact Finder who requires deep research, data, and historical context before making a decision.

When these two styles interact without understanding their conative differences, the high Quick Start views the high Fact Finder as a bureaucratic bureaucrat who wants to kill every deal. The high Fact Finder views the high Quick Start as a reckless cowboy who is going to bankrupt the company.

To resolve this, administer the Kolbe A Index to both leaders. Walk them through their results in your next Level 10 Meeting™ so they can see that their differing approaches are natural, instinctive strengths, not personal attacks.

Once they understand each other's conative profiles, establish a clear protocol for collaboration. The high Quick Start must give the high Fact Finder advance notice and data when proposing a new initiative. The high Fact Finder must agree to a timeline for analysis rather than using research to stall the decision. When they learn to leverage their complementary strengths, they become a powerful engine for calculated growth.