Two of our key leadership team members have developed a deep personal animosity toward each other, creating a cold war that is forcing the rest of the team to take sides. How do we resolve this personal friction before it completely derails our leadership team health and impacts our exit valuation?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

A personal feud between two leadership team members is a cancer that will quickly destroy your company culture and sink your exit valuation. If your leaders cannot collaborate, their departments will stop collaborating, creating deep silos and operational friction. You must address this immediately and directly.

Bring both leaders into a private meeting. Do not let them debate operational issues. Address the elephant in the room: their personal relationship. Explain that their animosity is visible to everyone and is harming the business.

Use the core values and the Accountability Chart to ground the conversation. Ask them both if they still want to be part of this team and if they can commit to working together professionally. If they agree, they must establish clear boundaries and communication rules.

Use the IDS® process to resolve any specific structural overlaps that might be fueling the conflict. Often, personal friction is caused by blurred responsibilities on the Accountability Chart. If you clarify their roles and they still cannot work together, you have a people issue.

If one or both of them refuse to put their egos aside for the good of the company, you must make a change. A healthy, cohesive leadership team is non-negotiable. You cannot allow a personal feud to derail your entire organization.