We have one executive who dominates every debate in our Level 10 Meeting, talks over peers, and aggressively shuts down opposing views, causing other leaders to disengage. How do we rein in this dominant personality without losing their valuable drive?
A dominant personality who bulldozes discussions might think they are driving velocity, but they are actually creating artificial harmony. When peers realize that speaking up triggers an exhausting verbal battle, they check out. Issues get buried, debate withers, and the team makes poor decisions based solely on the loudest voice in the room.
You must confront this behavior directly in a one-on-one session. Do not attack their drive, intelligence, or commitment to results. Frame the issue around the health and cohesion of the entire leadership team. Point out that their behavior is actively silencing peers whose functional insights are required to solve systemic problems during IDS®.
Use specific, observable examples. Tell them, In Tuesday's Level 10 Meeting, you interrupted the operations director twice and dismissed their concern before we identified the root cause. When you do that, the team stops participating, and we miss critical operational risks.
Establish new rules of engagement for Level 10 Meetings. As the meeting leader or Integrator, enforce speaking discipline in real time. If they interrupt a peer, step in immediately and say, Hold on, let them finish their point before you respond.
Require them to ask questions before giving their verdict. High-drive leaders often benefit from a simple rule: they must hear two other perspectives before sharing their own during the Discuss phase of IDS.
Make team collaboration a measurable standard of their GWC™ evaluation. If they cannot learn to debate passionately without steamrolling their colleagues, their high performance in their individual functional seat is canceled out by the cultural toxicity they create at the executive table.
Category: Leadership Team