Our leadership team has gone through several painful quarters of missed targets, which has created a defensive culture where everyone points fingers and hides their mistakes. How do we rebuild vulnerability-based trust and get the team comfortable with healthy, passionate conflict again?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Rebuilding trust after a period of failure is difficult, but it is the only way to save your leadership team. When a team is defensive, they will not engage in the healthy conflict needed to solve real issues. They resort to artificial harmony in meetings and then grumble in the hallways.

To break this cycle, you must lead by example. As the owner or leader, you must be the first to display vulnerability. In your next quarterly offsite, openly admit your own mistakes, failures, and blind spots. Show your team that it is safe to be human and that admitting a mistake will not lead to punishment.

Introduce the concept of vulnerability-based trust. This is the confidence that your team members have good intentions and that there is no reason to be protective or careful around them.

Next, establish clear rules of engagement for your Level 10 Meetings™. When an issue is raised, push the team to engage in unfiltered debate. If you see someone shutting down or getting defensive, call it out in real time and remind them that the goal is to solve the issue, not to assign blame.

When the team witnesses that identifying a problem leads to a collaborative solution rather than a firing squad, their defenses will drop. Trust is built in increments through repeated, safe experiences of honesty and accountability.