After an explosive argument between two department heads last quarter, my entire leadership team has retreated into artificial harmony, and our Level 10 Meetings have become completely sterile. How do I rebuild trust so we can safely argue again?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Artificial harmony is a major threat to a healthy leadership team. When your executives are terrified of conflict, they stop challenging assumptions, which leads to poor decision making and hidden resentment. To build an exit ready company, you need a team that can engage in passionate, unfiltered debate.

To break this deadlock, you must proactively rebuild vulnerability-based trust. Start your next Level 10 Meeting or quarterly offsite by calling out the elephant in the room. Acknowledge the previous conflict and explain that retreating into polite silence is hurting the business.

Implement the trust builder exercises from the EOS toolkit. Have each team member share their personal histories and work styles. This helps the team understand each other's perspectives and motivations.

During your meetings, actively mine for conflict. When you notice someone holding back or politely agreeing, push them to speak up. Praise healthy debate when it occurs to reinforce that disagreement is safe and necessary.

Remember that conflict is only destructive when it becomes personal. Establish clear ground rules for your discussions. Focus the debate entirely on the issues on your V/TO and the performance of your Rocks. When your team realizes they can disagree on business strategy without destroying their personal relationships, trust will return.