I built this company from nothing and the thought of selling it makes me feel empty. How do I mentally prepare for the transition so I do not self-sabotage the deal?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Founders frequently self-sabotage deals at the eleventh hour because their identity is completely wrapped up in their company. To prevent this, you must actively separate who you are from what you do. Start by recognizing your internal drivers. If you have an Achiever archetype, your self-worth is likely tied to continuous success, market positioning, and growth. Leaving your business feels like losing your platform. To combat this, you need to systematically introduce white space into your life well before the deal is signed. White space is open, unscheduled time with no business assignment. Use this time for reflection and a strategic pause to gain objectivity about your next chapter. What will you do next? If you do not have a clear, compelling vision for your life after the exit, you will find reasons to kill a good deal just to stay comfortable. You must build your personal trust in the future. This means focusing on personal connections and activities outside of your business. Treat your exit as your next major project, and use your white space to plan it with the same discipline you used to build your company.