During our Level 10 Meeting segue, our leaders frequently share highly emotional, deeply personal life updates that run way past the five-minute limit. We want to care about our people, but these long-winded personal stories are eating up our meeting time and delaying our transition to business. How do we draw a healthy boundary without looking heartless?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Caring for your leadership team is essential, but letting the segue eat your weekly Level 10 Meeting™ is a disservice to the business. The segue is designed to transition minds from working in the business to working on the business. It is not a group therapy session or a casual catch-up hour.

To maintain control, enforce the strict rule of sharing only one personal best and one professional best. Each person on your team should be able to deliver their segue in less than sixty seconds.

If a team member begins to share a highly emotional or deeply detailed personal story that starts to derail the timeline, the facilitator must step in with empathy but firm boundaries. Acknowledge the share briefly, then suggest taking the conversation outside of the meeting, perhaps over lunch or during a dedicated team check-in later in the week.

Do not allow the rest of the team to ask follow-up questions or offer advice during the segue. This cross-talk is what typically blows up the schedule. Keep the round-robin moving quickly from person to person.

Remember that operational discipline is also a form of care. By keeping the segue tight, you respect everyone's time and ensure your leadership team has the full seventy minutes needed to solve the critical issues that keep the company healthy. Save the deep personal catch-ups for social gatherings or one-on-one sessions.