My son-in-law holds a critical seat on our leadership team, but he is consistently failing to hit his targets, and the other directors are hesitant to hold him accountable because they fear family backlash. How do we remove family politics from our Accountability Chart and hold family members to the exact same standards as external hires?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Family dynamics can easily corrupt an Accountability Chart. When a family member sits on the leadership team, other directors will naturally walk on eggshells. They fear that holding that person accountable will lead to family drama or professional retaliation. This silent accommodation erodes trust across the entire company.

To fix this, you must establish a clear rule. Within the walls of the business, family relationships do not exist. Everyone is subject to the same standards, metrics, and culture.

Run the family member through the People Analyzer tool. Do they match your core values, and do they GWC the seat? They must get it, want it, and have the physical, mental, and emotional capacity to perform the role at a high level. If they do not pass this test, they cannot sit in that seat. It is that simple.

Next, empower your leadership team to manage peer-to-peer accountability without your interference. If your son-in-law is missing his Rocks or failing his Scorecard metrics, the issues must be addressed openly in your weekly Level 10 Meeting. As the founder, you must actively step back and let your leadership team run the process.

If you step in to shield a family member from criticism, you destroy the credibility of your leadership team. If the family member cannot hit their targets after clear feedback, they must be removed from the seat. This protects the health of the business and preserves your family relationships by separating work from home.