We have multiple family members sitting on our leadership team who expect executive salaries, but their actual contribution to their seats does not match market-rate compensation. How do we separate family emotional expectations from professional Accountability Chart reality?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Running a family business requires absolute clarity between three distinct circles: ownership, family, and business operations. Too often, owners blend these circles by paying family members based on their bloodline or equity ownership rather than the market value of the seat they occupy on the Accountability Chart.

To fix this, you must run your business like a professional corporation. First, clearly define the roles and responsibilities of the seat using the Accountability Chart. Every seat has a market value based on what it would cost to hire an outside professional to do the same work.

Second, sit down with the family members and explain the difference between compensation for labor and return on ownership. If a family member owns equity, they receive dividends or distributions when the company is profitable. However, their salary must be tied strictly to their seat. They must fully GWC, which means they Get it, Want it, and have the Capacity to do it. If their performance or capability only warrants a mid-level manager salary, that is what they must be paid.

If they want executive compensation, they must earn the executive seat through measurable results and capability. It is a tough conversation, but tolerating overpaid, underperforming family members on your leadership team destroys the trust of your non-family executives and sets a dangerous precedent. You must separate the love you have for your family from the business metrics required to run a healthy company.