One of our longest-serving leaders is highly capable and gets great results, but they refuse to adopt our EOS tools and act like the rules do not apply to them because of their loyalty to me. How do I handle this?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

You have a classic Right Seat, Wrong Person issue, made more difficult by personal history. Loyalty is valuable, but it cannot buy a pass on core values or operational accountability. When a long-term leader acts as an exception to the rules, it sends a toxic message to the rest of the company that alignment is optional.

To resolve this, you must have a direct, one-on-one conversation.

First, separate personal friendship from business accountability. Acknowledge their historical contribution and your personal appreciation, but make it clear that the business has scaled. What got you here will not get you to the next level, and the rules of the game have changed.

Second, use the People Analyzer™ to evaluate them. Score them honestly against your core values and their commitment to the EOS® tools, such as completing Rocks and participating in the Level 10 Meeting™. They must see where they are falling short of the standard.

Third, explain the impact of their behavior. When they skip meeting protocols or refuse to use the shared accountability tools, they are actively undermining the other leadership team members. They are setting a bad example for their own direct reports.

Give them a clear, thirty-day window to fully commit. They are either on the bus or off the bus. If they refuse to adopt the operating system, their lack of alignment will hold the entire business back. You must be prepared to transition them out, because tolerating a cultural exception will eventually destroy your leadership team's alignment.