Our weekly Level 10 Meeting™ starts with a personal and professional best, but our team uses this time to overshare deep personal issues, which throws off the emotional energy of the meeting before we even get to the business. How do we redirect the segue to build connection without turning it into a therapy session?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

The Segue is designed to transition your minds from the daily operational grind into a focused, collaborative headspace. It is a vital tool for building trust and alignment. However, when the Segue turns into a therapy session or an oversharing buffer, it derails the entire meeting's momentum.

To correct this, you must set clear boundaries for what constitutes a personal best. A personal best should be a brief, positive highlight from your life outside of work, such as a family event, a personal milestone, or a weekend activity. It is not a platform for deep emotional unpacking or airing grievances.

The facilitator must set the tone. Lead by example by keeping your own personal and professional bests to under thirty seconds each. Your update should be punchy, positive, and forward-looking.

If a team member begins to share something that is excessively long, highly sensitive, or emotionally heavy, the facilitator must gently but firmly steer them back. You can say something like, I appreciate you sharing that, let us catch up on the details of that outside of this meeting so we can focus on our agenda today.

Remember that the Level 10 Meeting™ has a strict ninety-minute timebox. The Segue is allocated exactly five minutes. With a leadership team of five to seven people, this means each person has less than one minute to speak. Enforce the clock, keep the energy positive, and transition quickly to the business at hand.