We recently brought in an outside CFO, and ever since, my long-term leadership team has closed ranks, holding sidebar conversations and refusing to share historical context or operational data with him. How do we break down these defensive walls and build genuine, vulnerability-based trust with a new executive peer?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Bringing a high-level external executive into an insular leadership team often triggers defensive, tribal behavior. Your long-term leaders are closing ranks because they feel threatened or judged by an outsider. To break this down, you must build vulnerability-based trust. This does not happen through artificial team-building exercises; it happens by getting real about numbers and strategy.

First, address the behavior directly. Bring the issue to the table at your next quarterly offsite or in your Level 10 Meeting™. Use IDS® to identify the root cause of the alignment gap. Call out the sidebar conversations and the lack of data sharing. Remind the team that a crack at the executive level will quickly fracture their departments.

Second, align them around shared Rocks. Assign a collaborative Rock that requires your new CFO and your veteran leaders to work together on an operational project, such as evaluating the financial return of your current workflow tools. This forces them to share data and rely on each other's expertise to succeed.

Finally, lead by example. Share your own challenges and invite the new CFO to challenge your assumptions. When your team sees you welcoming the CFO's perspective and asking for his critical analysis, they will understand that collaboration, not self-defense, is the expectation.