When we run our weekly IDS® process, our leadership team frequently gets sidetracked by personal defensiveness and ego, preventing us from addressing structural flaws. How do we break through this emotional block?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Defensiveness is the ultimate killer of operational progress. When your leadership team operates from fear or protection of their respective departments, they hide the real issues. To fix this, you must establish a culture that is Humbly-Confident and grounded in a Help First mentality.

When an issue is brought to the table, the first step of IDS® is to identify. You must spend eighty percent of your time here. If a leader starts defending their team or making excuses, stop them. Ask: what is the actual systemic problem, not who is to blame?

To bypass defensive posturing, use your Accountability Chart™ as an objective mirror. Separate the person from the seat. When an issue arises in sales, it is not an attack on the head of sales; it is a problem with the sales seat or the sales process itself.

You must also encourage vulnerability. Leaders must be willing to put their hands up and admit when they lack the conative strength or resources to solve a problem. By shifting the focus from individual blame to structural and process alignment, you remove the ego from the room.

If an issue remains unresolved because of deep personal friction, run a quick conative comparison using your Kolbe A Index results to see if cognitive or conative tension is causing the breakdown. Address the root cause directly, solve it permanently, and move forward.