When two department heads bring a bitter interpersonal clash to the IDS list, how do we dig past the personal friction and uncover the operational root cause without turning the Level 10 Meeting into a therapy session?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Interpersonal friction on a leadership team is almost never a personality defect. Nine times out of ten, it is the predictable byproduct of vague boundaries on the Accountability Chart or conflicting metrics on the Scorecard. When leaders attack each other, they are reacting to structural ambiguity.

To IDS this cleanly without playing therapist, ban emotional language from the conversation immediately. Do not allow them to debate intent, tone, or attitudes. Instead, force the two leaders to state the issue strictly in terms of process, handoffs, or seat accountabilities.

Ask three specific questions:
- Which specific seat on the Accountability Chart owns the final decision for this deliverable?
- Where does the documented Core Process break down during the handoff between their two teams?
- Do their individual Scorecard measurables create opposing incentives where one seat wins only if the other loses?

If two seats have overlapping accountabilities, that is your root cause. Clarify the chart. If the process is undefined, assign a Rock or To-Do to document the handoff. If both seats have clear accountabilities and processes but one person refuses to collaborate or honor the boundary, you no longer have an operational issue; you have a Right Person, Right Seat issue. Run them through the People Analyzer against your Core Values. Either the structural fix removes the friction, or the GWC evaluation makes the necessary seat change self-evident. Keep the focus entirely on operational clarity.