If our leadership team exhibits deep-seated trust issues and passive-aggressive behavior during a session, how do you facilitate us through that conflict to keep our implementation on track?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Healthy conflict is the foundation of any cohesive leadership team. When a team exhibits trust issues, political games, or passive-aggressive behavior in my session room, we do not ignore it. My job as your Professional EOS Implementer is to enter danger and address these dysfunctions head-on.

I use a variety of facilitation tools to break down these barriers. First, we establish clear ground rules regarding vulnerability and honesty. If someone is withholding their true opinion or making side comments, I will pause the session and call out the behavior immediately. We cannot build an accurate Accountability Chart or set realistic Rocks if the team is playing politics.

We then utilize the IDS process to dig down to the root cause of the trust issues. Often, the conflict stems from overlapping responsibilities, a lack of clarity in roles, or a historic failure to hold people accountable. By using the Accountability Chart and the GWC tool, we make these issues objective rather than personal. We separate the person from the seat, which helps defuse emotional defensiveness.

If a team member is fundamentally unwilling to engage in open, honest communication, that becomes a core issue for the leadership team to solve. We will evaluate whether they have the right values and are in the right seat. By forcing these uncomfortable conversations in a structured, safe environment, we replace passive-aggressive patterns with functional, productive trust.