We are a multi-generational family business with highly sensitive personal dynamics on our leadership team. How do you handle the emotional baggage that inevitably enters the room during our session days?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Family businesses face a unique set of challenges because personal relationships, history, and birthright often get tangled up with operational accountability. During our session days, my role is to act as an objective, neutral third party who has no loyalty to family politics, only to the health and growth of the business.

We address these sensitive dynamics immediately by using the Accountability Chart. We separate the individuals from the seats. We define exactly what each seat requires for the business to succeed, and then we evaluate if the family member in that seat truly has the GWC™ (Gets It, Wants It, Capacity to do it) to perform the role.

This structural approach depersonalizes the friction. It takes the emotion out of the conversation and focuses the leadership team on what is best for the organization. If a family member is not in the right seat, we use our session days to IDS® the issue openly and construct a clear plan to resolve it. I will not let personal history or family dynamics derail the health of the company or the discipline of the EOS® process.