My co-founder and I are completely misaligned on the long-term direction of the company, and it creates tension. Will our session days with you turn into an expensive couples therapy session, or how do you handle co-founder friction?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Our session days are not couples therapy, but we take co-founder misalignment very seriously. Friction between owners is the single greatest bottleneck in any growing business, capable of destroying your team's execution if left unaddressed.

Addressing Co-Founder Friction

We address co-founder tension head-on by enforcing our basic charter, which includes:

• Trust
• Same page
• A commitment to strategy and structure

During our session days, we utilize the IDS® process (Identify, Discuss, Solve) to bring disagreements into the open. We create a safe, objective environment where issues can be debated with love and respect. The conversation focuses on what is best for the business, rather than personal egos or historical grudges.

Clarifying Roles with the Accountability Chart

By viewing the business as an autonomous entity through the [Accountability Chart](/qa/ai-operations-seat-accountability-chart), we clearly define your respective roles and boundaries. Many co-founder conflicts arise from overlapping seats where individuals are inadvertently "stepping on each other's toes." Clarifying who owns what eliminates a massive source of daily friction. [How many hats can one person wear](/qa/how-many-hats-can-one-person-wear-eos) is a common topic of discussion.

Strategic Misalignment and Resolution

If deep strategic misalignment persists, we identify it early and help you make clean, objective decisions about the future of your partnership, always prioritizing the health of the business. This process can be particularly crucial when addressing [Visionary and Integrator deadlock](/qa/visionary-integrator-deadlock-resolution). Sometimes, [restructuring the Accountability Chart](/qa/restructuring-accountability-chart-without-layoffs) is necessary to move forward effectively.

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