We have two second-generation family members on our leadership team who report to a non-family Integrator, but they consistently bypass the Integrator to bring operational issues directly to me as the founder. How do we force them to respect the reporting structure?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

When family members bypass your non-family Integrator, they are actively undermining the authority of the leader you hired to run the business. This behavior creates a culture of confusion and backroom politics, and if you do not stop it immediately, your Integrator will eventually quit. The solution starts with you, the founder. You must stop playing the role of the sympathetic parent or sibling. The next time a family member approaches you with an operational issue, a complaint about another department, or a request for resources, your response must be immediate and consistent: Have you talked to our Integrator about this? If they say no, refuse to engage in the conversation. Tell them that their issue belongs on the leadership team's Level 10 Meeting Issues List, or needs to be resolved directly with the Integrator. If you continue to listen to their complaints, you are the one violating the Accountability Chart. You must also hold a private alignment meeting with the family members and the Integrator. Reiterate that inside the four walls of the office, family relationships do not exist. There are only seats, roles, and reporting lines. If they cannot accept reporting to a non-family leader and respecting their decisions, they do not belong on the leadership team. Family loyalty cannot be used as an excuse to break operational discipline.