My adult son occupies our Logistics seat on the Accountability Chart, and while he shares our Core Values, he clearly lacks the Capacity to manage our multi-state warehousing expansion. How do an owner and leadership team execute an objective Right Person, Right Seat evaluation when family dynamics are at stake?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Running a business with family requires ruthless separation between family love and business stewardship. When a family member occupies a seat they lack the capacity to deliver, every other leader in the company sees it immediately. If you protect them because of their last name, you destroy your credibility, demoralize top performers, and establish a culture of executive entitlement.

The solution starts with the People Analyzer®. Evaluate your son using the exact same standard applied to any other employee: Core Values and GWC™ (Gets It, Wants It, and Capacity to do it). He may get it and want it, but if he lacks the mental, physical, or technical capacity to lead multi-state logistics, that is an objective minus on Capacity. You cannot lower the bar for the seat to accommodate a family member.

Have an open, direct conversation outside of Sunday dinner. Explain that the company is scaling beyond his current capacity in that specific seat, and keeping him there sets him up to fail publicly.

Look at the Accountability Chart to see if there is an operational or specialist seat below the leadership team where his skills match the five roles and he can achieve a genuine plus across GWC. If such a seat does not exist or he refuses the transition, he must exit the business. You can love your son completely while acknowledging that protecting the company and the livelihoods of all your employees is your fiduciary duty as an owner.