During our weekly Rock and To-Do reviews, some of our leaders use emotional excuses or self-deprecating humor to deflect accountability when they miss a target, and the rest of the team lets them off the hook. How do we maintain a supportive leadership culture while still demanding absolute accountability during our reviews?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

A supportive culture is not one that tolerates missed commitments. True support means holding each other to a high standard because you care about the team's collective success. When a leader uses humor or excuses to deflect a missed Rock or To-Do, and the team allows it, you are slowly eroding trust and building a culture of mediocrity.

During the reporting section of your Level 10 Meeting™, the rules are simple. When reviewing Rocks or To-Dos, the response is binary: on track or off track, done or not done. There is no room for explanation, humor, or defensiveness.

If a Rock is off track or a To-Do is not done, the facilitator must immediately drop it to the Issues List. Do not allow the leader to explain why it happened during the review. The magic of this process is that it removes the emotional sting of failure. It is not a personal attack, it is simply an operational fact that needs to be addressed during IDS®.

When you reach IDS®, the team can supportively help that leader solve the bottleneck. This separates the individual's value from the operational outcome. You can be incredibly supportive of the person while remaining ruthlessly committed to the numbers. Stop accepting soft excuses and start dropping the misses straight to the Issues List.