The buyer wants me to stay on as a consultant for twelve months post-sale. How do I evaluate if my natural conative style can actually handle working for someone else in my own former company?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

This is a major psychological hurdle for many founders. Transitioning from the ultimate decision-maker to a subordinate or external consultant requires a dramatic shift in how you operate, and your success depends heavily on your hardwired conative drive.

To evaluate your suitability for this transition, you should use conative assessments like the Aptive Index. These tools measure your innate, hardwired approach to taking action and solving problems. If you have a high drive for independent action and a low tolerance for structured, bureaucratic processes, you will likely struggle under a new corporate owner.

You must also clarify your specific role and boundaries during the transition. If your conative style is geared toward quick starts and high flexibility, being forced to follow rigid reporting lines will cause immense frustration.

Be honest with yourself about your ability to let go. If you cannot align your natural tendencies with the buyer's operational structure, it is better to negotiate a shorter transition period or a clean break, even if it means adjusting the transaction terms.