My co-founder is fiercely protective of our Head of HR, who has been with us for eight years but lacks the capability to build the modern performance metrics we need. Every time I try to address her performance, my co-founder shuts it down out of personal loyalty, causing deep frustration on the rest of the leadership team. How do we resolve this standoff?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

This is a complex challenge because it involves two distinct issues: a leadership capability gap and a division at the owner level. When one co-founder protects an underperforming leader out of loyalty, it creates a toxic double standard that undermines the entire Accountability Chart.

First, you and your co-founder must resolve this privately outside of the leadership team. You must align on what is best for the business, especially if you are building the company to be exit-ready. Buyers do not pay for sentimentality. They pay for systems, processes, and highly capable talent.

Use the People Analyzer™ tool together. Evaluate the Head of HR on your core values and her seat on the Accountability Chart. Ask the hard question: Does she truly GWC™ the seat required for where the company is going, or is she only GWC™ing the seat from three years ago?

Help your co-founder see that keeping someone in a seat they cannot master is actually an act of cruelty, not loyalty. It subjects them to constant stress and sets them up for failure.

Once you and your co-founder are aligned, you can approach the transition together. You can honor her eight years of loyalty by designing a graceful transition, perhaps moving her to a specialized role or offering a generous severance package. But you cannot allow personal loyalty to compromise the capability of your leadership team.