Our leadership team meetings are polite and quiet, but as soon as the meeting ends, people grumble in the hallways. How do we break through this fake harmony and get the team to engage in unfiltered, healthy conflict during our Level 10 Meetings?

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Tyler Smith · Accepted Answer

Polite meetings are a sign of a dying company. When your leadership team nods in agreement during a Level 10 Meeting™ but complains in private, you do not have harmony, you have artificial peace. This fake alignment leads to bad decisions because the real issues are never put on the table. To break this cycle, you must actively mine for conflict.

As the leader, you need to call out the silence. If you notice a team member crossing their arms or staying quiet during a big discussion, pull the issue out of them. Ask directly what they are not saying. Your job is to make it safe to disagree. You can even appoint someone to play the devil's advocate during major debates to normalize dissent.

Use the IDS® process to force real issue resolution. When an issue is raised, do not let the team jump to a quick, comfortable solution. Force them to identify the root cause, discuss it thoroughly, and solve it permanently. Remind the team that once a decision is made, everyone must support it outside the room with one voice.

If the team is slow to open up, start by sharing your own mistakes and vulnerabilities. Trust is built from the top down. Once they see that admitting mistakes or challenging an idea does not result in political punishment, they will begin to speak up. Healthy conflict is not personal, it is a business requirement.